ON BEING AN EXPAT IN SIX WORDS OR LESS

A cocktail of opportunities and challenges.

  • Exciting, weird, lost, fun, scary, adventurous.
  • Mentally tough.  Fascinating.  Fractured and thrilling.
  • Interesting. Lonely. Lovely. Frustrating. Never Boring.
  • Steep learning curves with no comfort zone.

I went to the International Women’s Club (IWC) last night and was really amazed at the nations represented just in Clermont-Ferrand alone!  Brazil, Vietnam, France, England, Ireland, India, Canada…along with a few Americans. Young, old, all over the spectrum.  Their stories are fascinating – attending boarding schools as children, families of diplomats, living in the Orient for decades, raising children, missing families, and some living here after retirement – they just decided to stay!

There’s the British woman who married a Frenchman years ago and her mother still refuses to acknowledge him because he’s FRENCH – and Catholic. The Indian woman who lived in Thailand for years.  The French woman who lived in an Iowa university town with her husband for a decade, LOVED it, and said it took years to readjust to living in France again – her home country!

Now – for comparison – the United States is vast as well as ethnically AND culturally diverse.  Because of our beginnings as the land of opportunity, ‘the new world’, we continue to be the biggest melting pot!  According to PewResearch.org, the United States leads the world in total immigrant population with more than 46 million immigrants, which is nearly 20% of the world’s total immigrant population.

Being an expat IS strange and different and unusual – compared to what I’m used to.  Being American doesn’t mean a specific culture or ‘type.’  To say to an international group that you are an American is only part of the story.  Your STORY is actually ‘I’m from the South, y’all,’ or ‘I’m from Nu’ Joi-see,’ or ‘hey, dude, I’m like from LA….,” or “Boomer Sooner!”  🙂 We eat Sushi and Tex-Mex.  We have Indian casinos in the West, world leading aerospace industry in the Northeast, and world-class skiing in Colorado.  We are the land of Las Vegas, Paula Dean, South by Southwest, Bassnectar, Silicon Valley, and the Pioneer Woman.

It’s a big world out there and we all have our stories to tell!

Mack the Knife (Music to Read A Blog about Knives By)

https://youtu.be/SEllHMWkXEU

So, needing a break from walking everywhere and a change of scenery, we took a short drive to Thiers, France, the capital of European cutlery!  A quaint and ancient small town with a population of 11,000, Thiers is synonymous with high quality blades – cooking knives, table knives, pocket knives, you name it!  The artistry of the knives was incredible.  Truly an art form!  (Learn more here) (and here)

Row after row of cutlery shops with exquisite handles and blades!   The store on the left here is owned by the Ponson family, cutlery artists for six unbroken generations.  We had a nice conversation in French with the 5th generation father (artisan) and his wife (in charge of sales!).  The short walk around town was fascinating, with many stores having active workshops inside to hand make custom pieces with elk horn, ivory, and exotic wood handles or engraved blades with ornate pictures.  These pieces are gorgeous – and not inexpensive.

Early in the 14th century, knives in Thiers were originally made in the river at the bottom of the cliff (you can see how steep the terrain is in the picture)  by men laying on their stomachs for 12-14 hours at a time, honing the blades in the water on grist wheels that were turned by the power of the current.  The knife makers were frequently left crippled by the physical position they had to maintain in terrible conditions, and many died or were maimed due to the wheels breaking.

We did stop for a lonnnnggggg (French = long) lunch, as evidenced by my caramel dessert crepe. (I didn’t take a picture of the galotte (ham and cheese-type crepe, topped by an egg looking at me (!), which was promptly scooped onto Tanner’s plate.)  Tasted great – sans the egg!

The ancient church, Eglise St. Genes, was first built in 575 (can you even imagine the year 575?)  and then rebuilt in the Gothic/Roman style in the 12th century.  It was amazing….and freezing cold inside.  The stones hold in the cold like none other.

Those early monks had to be wearing a lot of woolies under those robes!  No wonder the people slept with their dogs!  Oh, wait, my kids still do that……

Anyway, it was a good short outing…with storm clouds building around the massive chain of volcanoes on our way back….

We miss and cherish you!

Bisous!      

PS – I did play Bunco last week – and I won.  Not sure if I’m invited back now???

EVERY DAY’S A WINNER

Alors, we’ve only been here about 40 days and we can already tell you fun facts about being in a French hospital!  Never a dull moment for us, that’s for sure.

Mon marie had some unexpected and significant EKG results as part of a routine on-boarding physical, which landed him quickly in the Pôle Santé République (hospital) for a coronary angiogram.  The great news is no surgery for now (can you say we were thinking emergency trip back to the US??!?) and we’ll know more with two months of beta blockers and ACE inhibitor meds.    Great care and ‘good-enough’ communications utilizing a mix of ‘franglish.’  It’s actually pretty comical.  Lots of hand motions!  🙂

Upon arrival to the hospital, we were presented a menu.  Do you want a single room?  Would you like a tv?  How about wifi?  A private bathroom? Would you like gourmet meals or basic sustenance?  Each option carried it’s own pricing…..very interesting!  Would you like tires with that car?

As you can see, he had a great view of the Stade Marcel Michelin right outside his window, which is the 19,000 seat Rugby Stadium for the ASM Team – 2016-2017 National Rugby Champions.  You can see the giant Rugby sculpture and the globally omnipresent Golden Arches!

Back to French healthcare.  I was pleased to see that the hospital was functional and didn’t look like a 5 star Michelin Guidebook Hotel (can you say Greenville Memorial?) with paintings and oriental carpets…..($$$$ to your insurance premiums and pocketbook).  The flip side of that is that he was given a bottle of water and a glass.  Period. No ice, no soap, no towels (until requested), and breakfast was a tiny coffee and small piece of bread.  Guess we didn’t check off the box for the gourmet meal!  🙂

Yes, we took the tram to the hospital.  Yes, we took the tram home.  I haven’t driven the car yet (standard) and it didn’t seem like the timing was right to begin lessons!  🙂

For those of you who knew this was happening, thank you for the prayers.  We could feel them.  Please keep his improvement in your continuing prayers.

Every day’s a winner isn’t just a catchphrase or a slogan.  It’s a belief, it’s faith.   Deuteronomy 31:8 says, “The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you.  He will not fail you or forsake you.  Do not fear or be dismayed.”

Now – back to unpacking those boxes!  AND BUNCO THIS AFTERNOON!  AND KIDS ARRIVE TWO WEEKS FROM TODAY!   It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas….

Love,

Mindy

Can You See the Forest for the Trees?

Every day I try to make my way up these little tiny wooden stairs inside our apartment to our roof….

to see this…(hover your mouse over the picture)

and then I KNOW it’s all going to be OKAY!

We are all gearing up for the holiday stress / traffic / rush / pressure … if you can, try to make your way up your own [mental] stairs, just for a quick ‘view from the top down.’  It helps!

A quick view of the Clermont Ferrand Christmas Market – and planning to get to Lyon, France in a few weeks for the full version!  The hot spiced wine was divine!

  

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What does JOY mean to you?  Noël approche!

Love,

Mindy

and – can’t forget the fun facts! – speaking of French Christmas traditions….

Father slapper: This character is known as Père Fouettard.  Not exactly PC in today’s environment, the “Whipping Father” or “slapping Santa” would come with St. Nicholas and was said to bring a whip with him to spank naughty kids.  That would probably even get MY attention!
*pictures taken by Laurie Williams – better than mine!

The Good. The Bad. And the Ugly.

Snow.  Cold. Beautiful.

Put on my snow boots and took the 30 minute tram ride to a specialty grocery store for ‘real cooks’ with Lucienne, a Canadian Michelin expat.  And a ‘real cook.’ Pulling our little ‘trollies’ to carry groceries, since you have to carry what you buy.

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The Good.  The Bad.  And the Ugly.

I’ll let you decide which adjective goes with which picture.

 Produce from Spain

 and France. Fried pork fat. Feet.  Head cheese (a loaf made from the head and flesh of the animal.  Really.) Continue reading “The Good. The Bad. And the Ugly.”

99 Bottles of Beer on the Wall….

Ha ha, got your attention, didn’t I?  This post is actually about the 120 stairs between the street and our apartment…….which looks something like this when you are going up!  NEVER ENDING….

I’m determined to walk up AT LEAST least once a day…four floors of 25 winding stairs each….but you DO have alternatives!

To give you some perspective, here is the view from our apartment door on the 5th floor looking inside, and the view looking the other way, outside our apartment door, which is literally face to face with the elevator.  [We are mighty THANKFUL we have one, as most 100-year-old buildings do not! ]

    

INTRODUCING THE WORLD’S SMALLEST ELEVATOR!

                    

Option A                                                     Option B (our actual staircase, with elevator squeezed in the middle)

I put my slippers into the elevator so that you can see exactly how much space we are talking about.  YEP!  About the width of two coffins…but there ARE two choices!  So pick your poison!

SO NOW – BACK TO THE BEER  Going up the stairs yesterday, I thought about the American folksong “99 Bottles of Beer on the Wall.” (The link may be a stretch for some of you, but that’s how my mind works)….Get it, get it?  99 Bottles…..99 steps…..silent singing helps to not focus on the muscles whining for mercy!

AND TO WIND UP  (Yes – pun intended this time.  Groaning allowed.) The following is a really catching country-style version to make you smile for the day…..

Have a great day!  Bonne journée!

Mindy